Verbal Abuse – A Sample Letter From My Own Life

Many people do not even know that they are being abused verbally or emotionally. I was one of those people. I thought that everyone was being treated like I was. I thought that everyone was walking on eggshells afraid of how their spouses were going to react.

Abusers come in all shapes and sizes. They can be a male or a female. They can be a parent or a spouse. I am using my personal example of my ex-husband of twenty one years of marriage.

There were good days when we could sit and laugh and talk about things that were important to both of us. When those days would come, I would relax and enjoy myself but I was always guarded. When was the next blow-up? How would I react? What would he say? Where would the children be? How long could I hold my tears in so my children wouldn’t notice that I was crying again?

No-one knows what triggers an abuser to become hostile. It may be a memory of a past incident that they had experienced. It may be a chemical imbalance. Most of the time, an abuser will scream and shout and become demeaning because they have sense defeat and the loss of control.

When they are happy, they will plan to have a picnic at the beach or go for a swim with the children. They are always looking for approval because if you don’t comply, there is always a price to pay.

Here is an actual letter that I received only one day after my abuser apologized for the pain that he caused me. In that same conversation, he cried and begged me to come back to him. He said that when he lost me, he lost everything, and if he cannot have me back, he will settle for anything because he hates being alone.

“You crossed the line yesterday…you embarrassed me in front of J…she think that you have me wrapped around your finger…. and this how you treat me….like I am some sort of door mat. One of the biggest reason for fight with S is my relationship with you….and it looks like it will has started of the same way with J….I will not allow this happen this time…and I will not allow you to take that away. Everything is always your fault. I will go to J at least she has respect for me…or at least she did before you walked into that room yesterday….flexing your muscles.

So you are now promoted to the bottom of the food chain…There are you happy now…this is what you are after…see what happens when you stand up… I still have to take your bull shit. I can do anything. You are nothing to me. I am pushing back. You are a chicken. You can’t even fight me. Wait and see now what is going to happen to you”

If this letter rings a bell or touches a chord, you may be in an abusive relationship. The first step to healing is recognizing and identifying the situation for what it is. If you feel your relationship may be verbally and emotionally abusive, talk to people you trust. Talk to clergy, call your local battered women’s shelter, educate yourself, seek professional help. Do not allow verbal and emotional abuse to escalate to battery!

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How An Apple Charging Cube Sticks To Wall (Works great for life hacks)



How to get an apple charging cube to stick to the wall, i tried to use my AirPods, charging cord, even my iPhone
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Magic apple adapter on the wall
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How to Improve Your Mobile Device's Battery Life | FIX.com



Having the battery on your mobile device die is the WORST. Research indicates that the average North American spends about 5 hours per day on their mobile device, and this can drain the battery FAST. Luckily, there ARE a few ways that you can help prolong your device’s battery life. In this video, we’ll show you how to get more from your battery, so you don’t end up getting left high and dry!

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EVERYDAY HABITS THAT DRAIN YOUR BATTERY
• Mobile Data- consider switching to WiFi or turning off mobile data altogether.
• Bluetooth and GPS- these will sap your battery if they’re running
• Push Notifications, Location Tracking, and Auto-Syncing- If you don’t need them, turn them off to save your battery life
• Power-Draining Apps- Checking your Settings to determine which apps use the most power can help you make conscious decisions about which apps you want to run while on low-battery
• Rarely used apps- Consider deleting apps you don’t use, as they can still drain power
• Airplane Mode- Your phone uses significantly less battery on airplane mode, so if you’re hurting for battery life, it can be helpful

CHARGING HABITS THAT CAN IMPROVE BATTERY LIFE
• Use the charger that came with your device. Off-brand chargers may not charge as efficiently
• Charge often, for short periods of time
• Keep your phone between 40% and 80% most of the time, rather than constantly going from 0-100%
• Low Power Mode- best when the phone is below 20%. This takes away some of the leg work of keeping the phone charged, and makes smart battery life decisions for you
• Don’t leave the phone dead for long periods. This can prevent it from holding a charge in the future

5 SIGNS YOUR BATTERY IS DOOMED
• No Power, even when plugged in
• Only powers on when plugged in
• Quickly loses its charge
• Hot to the touch
• Swollen or bulging battery

We hope these tips were helpful and taught you a little bit about how you can extend your battery life. We love hearing from FIXers, so let us know if you have any other helpful tips in the comments below!

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GoPro: How to get better battery life when using LCD screen – GoPro Tip #527 | MicBergsma



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GoPro Hero3+ Wasabi vs Smatree vs GoPro Battery Life – 1080p 30fps – GoPro Tip #251 | MicBergsma



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How to Check Apple AirPods Battery Life Out Of The Case For The iPhone And Android



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Prolong The Life Of Your Hybrid Car Battery – Wrenchin' Up



Hybrid Electric Vehicles have been around quite a while now and many of them have batteries that may not be performing like they did when they were new. My guest, Jeff Sloan of Hybrid Automotive explains how you can improve and even prolong the life of the high voltage battery in your hybrid vehicle.

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Convert Damaged 48v E Rikshaw Battery Charger 24V Battery Charger Amazing Life Hacks



Convert Damaged 48v E Rikshaw Battery Charger to 24V Battery Charger make Very easily

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How To Double The Life Of Your Lithium Batteries



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